Miscarriage Grief & Loss

Meet our expert team in Plantation, FL, led by perinatal maternal mental health specialist, Dr. Chantal Gagnon, Ph.D. LMHC. We specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate grief and bereavement after pregnancy loss, including miscarriage and stillbirth. Our compassionate professionals offer a safe space for processing emotions and developing coping strategies, guiding you toward healing and hope.

What is Miscarriage Grief & Loss?

Grief and bereavement following pregnancy loss, including miscarriage and stillbirth, are profound emotional experiences that encompass a range of intense emotions such as sadness, guilt, anger, and profound loss.

These losses can evoke complex feelings, as parents may have formed deep emotional connections with their unborn child. Counseling can play a vital role in helping individuals navigate this challenging journey.

A skilled therapist provides a safe and empathetic space for parents to process their grief, explore their emotions, and develop coping strategies. Additionally, counseling can aid in addressing any feelings of guilt or self-blame, fostering healing and resilience. Through therapeutic support, individuals and couples can find ways to honor their lost child's memory while gradually moving towards a place of emotional recovery and hope for the future

“You never arrived in my arms, but you will never leave my heart.”


Counseling for Miscarriage Grief & Loss

normal feelings, thoughts, and experiences that mothers and fathers might have after a miscarriage, loss of pregnancy, or stillbirth:


  1. Grief: Mothers often experience profound grief, sadness, and a deep sense of loss. This can be accompanied by crying spells and a feeling of emptiness.
  2. Guilt: Many mothers may grapple with feelings of guilt, wondering if they did something to cause the miscarriage or if they could have prevented it.
  3. Self-Blame: It's common for mothers to blame themselves, even when the miscarriage was beyond their control.
  4. Physical Discomfort: Physical symptoms such as cramping and bleeding can serve as constant reminders of the loss, adding to their distress.
  5. Isolation: Some mothers might withdraw from social activities or feel isolated as they struggle to process their emotions.
  6. Anxiety: Anxiety about future pregnancies and the fear of experiencing another loss can be overwhelming.
  7. Anger: Feelings of anger, often directed at the situation or even at their own bodies, can arise.


  1. Grief: Fathers also grieve the loss of their baby, but their expression of grief may be different from mothers.
  2. Helplessness: They may feel helpless, unable to protect their partner or prevent the loss.
  3. Inadequacy: Fathers might grapple with feelings of inadequacy, as they may struggle to find the "right" way to support their partner.
  4. Emotional Distance: Some fathers may appear emotionally distant as they process their grief differently, which can sometimes lead to misunderstandings with their partner.
  5. Role Changes: The loss may prompt fathers to reevaluate their roles and responsibilities as parents and partners.
  6. Fear of Future Loss: Like mothers, fathers may experience anxiety and fear regarding future pregnancies.
  7. Need for Support: Fathers often benefit from support and understanding, just as mothers do, even though their expression of grief may vary.

It's important to note that the grieving process is highly individual, and there is no "right" way to grieve. Both mothers and fathers should be encouraged to seek support, whether through counseling, support groups, or talking openly with each other, to navigate this challenging journey together.

Compassionate support for individuals and couples seeking help and guidance after experiencing a stillbirth or miscarriage.
Empathetic assistance for those in search of guidance and understanding following the painful experience of stillbirth or miscarriage

Coping After Pregnancy Loss

  1. Seek Support: Reach out to friends, family, or a support group to share your feelings and experiences. Talking about your loss with people who understand can be immensely comforting.
  2. Counseling or Therapy: Consider professional counseling or therapy to help you process your grief and develop coping strategies. Therapists specializing in pregnancy loss can provide valuable guidance.
  3. Self-Care: Prioritize self-care by engaging in activities that promote emotional well-being, such as meditation, yoga, journaling, or taking gentle walks. Pay attention to your physical health too, including getting enough rest and eating nourishing foods.
  4. Memorialization: Find a way to memorialize your lost pregnancy, whether through creating a keepsake, planting a tree, or participating in a memorial event. This can help you find closure and acknowledge your baby's presence in your life.
  5. Give Yourself Time: Grief is a personal journey, and it's important to be patient with yourself. Allow yourself to feel a range of emotions without judgment and understand that healing takes time.

Remember that everyone's grieving process is unique, so it's essential to do what feels right for you and seek professional help if you find the grief overwhelming or prolonged.

“How very quietly you tiptoed into our world, silently, only for a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footprints have left upon our hearts.”


Why Did God let this happen?

Experiencing a stillbirth or miscarriage can deeply shake one's faith and leave you feeling utterly let down by God. It's entirely normal to question why such a devastating loss has occurred. You may find yourself asking, "Why did God let this happen? Did I do something wrong? Is there a greater purpose to this pain?" These questions can be overwhelming, and the feeling of abandonment can be profound.

In moments like these, it's essential to know that seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness. Counseling can provide a safe and compassionate space for you to explore these spiritual and existential questions, whether from a faith-based, Christian, or existentialist perspective. Dr. Chantal, a mother herself and married to a pastor, possesses a unique understanding of these issues. She can guide you through your grief, helping you find solace, answers, and a renewed sense of connection with your faith or spirituality. You don't have to navigate this journey alone; support and healing are available.

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Miscarriage Grief & Loss in Plantation FL

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy was the very first specialized counseling method and learned and used as a young therapist. While I've learned many other counseling approaches since then, CBT remains one of my favorites.

My office is located in midtown Plantation Florida, just steps away from Weston, Davie, Cooper City, Sunrise, Tamarac, and Fort Lauderdale.

Making your first appointment is easy! Just call 954-559-2936 24-hours a day (a live person will actually speak with you and schedule your appointment), or schedule an appointment yourself using my online scheduling tool!